Kia ora *|FNAME|* It’s nice to pop into your world today, and exciting to welcome you newbies to my (mostly) weekly memoir chat. I’d love to know how you found me (considering how little marketing I’ve been doing lately)! If you want to explore a few years of memoir tips, pop into my blog. The …
Facts getting in the way of your rollicking good memoir? Plus interview with Alison Mau.
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying ‘never let the facts get in the way of a good story.’ When it comes to writing your memoir, this line often proves true! So how important is it for you to fact check? Well, it depends. The more accurate your info is, the more seriously folks will take …
Love stories of a memoir writer
Kia ora, This month, in honour of Valentine's Day, I’m focusing on love stories. Because, I can. I am, at heart, a romantic. I love the ‘how did you meet’ stories. My dad met my mum at the Whakatu Hotel in Nelson. She wore a full suede outfit. Think long suede boots, a suede skirt …
Why does your memoir matter?
Kia Ora, well hello there lovely, Someone recently asked me why people write their memoirs and life stories and I had to pause, because in my memoir focused brain, there are so many reasons! One big one is the value of passing on the stories of your life, so that children and grandchildren are able …
Wrangling images into your memoir
Kia ora, I was talking with a memoir client today who sighed and said, “the photos seem to take longer than writing the book!” I thought this might be a good reason to prepare you! Not all of you will be using photos in your stories, but if you are, here are five things you …
Too much info for your memoir?
Kia ora lovely, How’s that memoir of yours coming along today? Yesterday I met with my Golden Bay memoir group, and someone was saying they were unsure whether to dive deeply into one aspect of their story, or write more generally. They saw they could very quickly end up with waaaay too much info for …
How to write a memoir they can’t put down
Kia ora from mid-summer in Tākaka 👋🏼 I write to you from a busy home, overflowing with teenage boys, a clingy dog, a husband who keeps escaping to his man-shed to paint water colours, and social butterfly of grandmother. Have you wondered how to write a story that people can’t put down? Every now and …
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The power of 30 minutes for memoir writers
Kia ora, Wishing you a peaceful, happy beginning to your 2026. That's me above, after a sweaty uphill stroll through the forest. Is finishing your book one of your New Year’s resolutions? If it is, now’s a good time to think about planning it into your routine. 30 minutes a day, a few times a …
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Tell them who they came from
Kia Ora How are you on this fine summer's day? Are you finding time to work on your story? This will be the last email from me this year, and I want to talk to you about your memories of your parents and grandparents. Sometimes people ask me if I think they should include them …
Meet Mike’s new book
Kia ora, I thought I’d show you a short video about Mike Brown’s new book today. He’s currently in Christchurch excitedly delivering it to his grandkids. How cool is that? Mike had been working on his book for 20 years off and on until he stumbled upon a free memoir course I was giving at …
Crafting the extraordinary around the ordinary
Kia ora, How’s that memoir of yours coming along this week? I get so inspired by the people I’m guiding to write their stories. Yesterday I took a monthly community memoir class and one person shared a funny, surprising, moving story that was built around her love of the humble banana box. Through a series …
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Share your Christmas story?
Kia ora lovely human, I think the time has come 🎄 Yes, let’s dust off those Christmas memories of yours and share them with readers of our memoir writing community. Would you like to email me half a page (about 200 words) about a favourite Christmas memory of yours? Don’t hold back. Be it strange, …
Want to get better writing? Read
Kia ora 👋🏼 It’s good to drop into your world today. How’s that memoir of yours coming along? Have you started it yet? Or are you at the ‘thinking about it stage’? Some of you are in the depths of writing, and still more of you are polishing up the first drafts of your stories. …
What to include, and not include
Kia ora dear writer, How are you on this fine Thursday? Did you manage to work on your memoir this week? I hope so. I’m neck deep in editing Mike’s book, researching the history (or should I say ‘her-story’) of a hydro power station, and helping Jodie produce the second edition of her dad’s book …
Loose ends
Kia Ora, well hello there 👋 I write to you from stormy Tākaka. How’s that book of yours coming along this week? I’ll tell you what’s on my mind as I write and edit this week: loose ends. They’re everywhere in life, and memoirs and histories are no exception. When you reach the later stages …
Your authentic voice 👌🏽
Kia ora lovely human, How’s your story coming along? Did you do any work on it today? Do me a favour and arrange to do one small thing on it before the end of the day, OR tomorrow. And then keep doing more ‘one small things’ daily, and watch what happens. So let's talk about …

