Kia Ora, well hello there lovely, Someone recently asked me why people write their memoirs and life stories and I had to pause, because in my memoir focused brain, there are so many reasons! One big one is the value of passing on the stories of your life, so that children and grandchildren are able …
Wrangling images into your memoir
Kia ora, I was talking with a memoir client today who sighed and said, “the photos seem to take longer than writing the book!” I thought this might be a good reason to prepare you! Not all of you will be using photos in your stories, but if you are, here are five things you …
Too much info for your memoir?
Kia ora lovely, How’s that memoir of yours coming along today? Yesterday I met with my Golden Bay memoir group, and someone was saying they were unsure whether to dive deeply into one aspect of their story, or write more generally. They saw they could very quickly end up with waaaay too much info for …
How to write a memoir they can’t put down
Kia ora from mid-summer in Tākaka 👋🏼 I write to you from a busy home, overflowing with teenage boys, a clingy dog, a husband who keeps escaping to his man-shed to paint water colours, and social butterfly of grandmother. Have you wondered how to write a story that people can’t put down? Every now and …
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Meet Mike’s new book
Kia ora, I thought I’d show you a short video about Mike Brown’s new book today. He’s currently in Christchurch excitedly delivering it to his grandkids. How cool is that? Mike had been working on his book for 20 years off and on until he stumbled upon a free memoir course I was giving at …
Crafting the extraordinary around the ordinary
Kia ora, How’s that memoir of yours coming along this week? I get so inspired by the people I’m guiding to write their stories. Yesterday I took a monthly community memoir class and one person shared a funny, surprising, moving story that was built around her love of the humble banana box. Through a series …
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Share your Christmas story?
Kia ora lovely human, I think the time has come 🎄 Yes, let’s dust off those Christmas memories of yours and share them with readers of our memoir writing community. Would you like to email me half a page (about 200 words) about a favourite Christmas memory of yours? Don’t hold back. Be it strange, …
What to include, and not include
Kia ora dear writer, How are you on this fine Thursday? Did you manage to work on your memoir this week? I hope so. I’m neck deep in editing Mike’s book, researching the history (or should I say ‘her-story’) of a hydro power station, and helping Jodie produce the second edition of her dad’s book …
Loose ends
Kia Ora, well hello there 👋 I write to you from stormy Tākaka. How’s that book of yours coming along this week? I’ll tell you what’s on my mind as I write and edit this week: loose ends. They’re everywhere in life, and memoirs and histories are no exception. When you reach the later stages …
Your authentic voice 👌🏽
Kia ora lovely human, How’s your story coming along? Did you do any work on it today? Do me a favour and arrange to do one small thing on it before the end of the day, OR tomorrow. And then keep doing more ‘one small things’ daily, and watch what happens. So let's talk about …
Josephine’s hair experiment (+ last few days to join new memoir programme)
Kia ora lovely, how’s that story of yours coming along this week? Remember, the first draft needs to be messy, because creativity isn’t tidy. It’s gloriously expressive. So let it out, and go easy on yourself ❤️ there will be plenty of time to tidy it up later, during your second, third and fourth drafts! …
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When you were two
Kia ora, I’ve got a photo in the garage somewhere of me, aged two, sitting in my favourite bowl, wearing my favourite (and only) beaded necklace. I am beaming in the way children do when they’re in the place they most want to be. It’s a hot day but I have my bowl of cool …
You’re the expert
Kia ora dear one, I’ve got good news for you. You can’t go wrong with your book, really. Because at a very basic level, people will read it to learn your story and get a sense of you. And who’s the expert on that particular subject? 100% you! This bodes well for those of you …
From rough moment to book cover
Kia Ora dear memoir writer 👋 How are you and how is your story coming along? This week I’m enamoured with memoir writer Mike Brown’s first ever book cover and I wanted to show you! You may or may not know that as well as teaching people to write their memoirs (including Mike) my team …
What if you can’t remember dates?
Kia Ora dear memoir writer, How’s your story coming along? I’d love to know. I bumped into a student on my memoir course a few days ago, and she asked me if it mattered that she couldn’t remember exact dates that events happened. Great question. It depends. Some writers seek to be as accurate as …
What’s the ‘why’ behind your memoir?
Kia ora from the rain drenched top of the South Island, New Zealand! My family came through the weather events safely, with only a few leaks here and there, plus I got stuck on the other side of the Tākaka Hill for a night when eight landslides closed it! But I’m aware that many didn’t …

